Archive for May, 2009

Changing Your Environment for Success!
Thursday, May 28th, 2009

Does your Environment Inflate you or Deflate You?

Have a look around you; are you sitting somewhere that inspires you to grow? Inspires you to be who you are? If you are reading this at work, think about your home environment.

In our house, we have many living spaces and we have set each one up in a way that we can both feel comfortable in. For example, I love to cook, so most of my time is spent in the kitchen / dining room, and Tim likes to watch; however there was no where really for him to sit. So we moved our dining table to face a different way; put two (2) of the six (6) chairs in the spare room (after all there is only two (2) of us) and bought in a really comfy lounge.

We now have a space where we can both be comfortable, the lounge gets used a lot now and we have come up with some of our best business decisions whilst sitting on this lounge together.

Now I’m not suggesting that ring the builder and organise the renovations; but with a few simple changes you too can have the environment that is designed to inspire you.

It may be as simple as a coat of paint or moving the family heirloom picture hanging on the wall to a different room. I’ll be interested to hear your environment changes, be sure to let me know.

Have a great day!

Cheers Katie

Filed under: Katie's Thoughts — Tags: , , — Katie Bedding @ 9:45 am
Challenge Your Conditioning
Saturday, May 16th, 2009

All of the worlds most successful people (and I don’t mean the richest) who have started from humble beginnings have done so by first challenging the mindset and beliefs which were conditioned into them by the people around them when they were growing up.

In saying this I am not suggesting for a moment there is anything wrong with your parents or family. I’m sure they are all wonderful people and are responsible for all of the great characteristics of your personality like respect, honour, love, value of relationships, commitment, and compassion and so on.

I grew up in a typical household where my parents had a good relationship and all of the above values were instilled into me and I am grateful to them to for that. However, if we look at specific aspects of their lives, and that of many others like them their results are not as well developed as others. This doesn’t mean they are a failure it simply means their results in areas like their financial reality are directly related to their conditioning while they were growing up and they pass this conditioning down from generation to generation.

This again doesn’t mean the people around you don’t know anything, however, if you observe them closely you will notice that their results will vary in different areas. Some will have good success in relationships but never money. Others are financially abundant but never seem to be able to conduct a happy long term relationship.

Therefore, if you seek advice on financial matters ask someone who has great success financially, if you’re after advice on relationships, ask someone who has great relationships and / or relates well to others.

No one person, has all the answers and if you really wish to live a life of abundance your mind must be open to new ways of thinking and be prepared to change when confronted with an idea which challenges what you have always been led to believe but seems to make plain logical sense.

After all if something makes logical sense, its more than likely right. Very few things that don’t make sense turn out to be true.

Filed under: Tim's Thoughts — Tags: — Tim Lawrie @ 8:40 am
7 Steps for Successful Goal Setting
Thursday, May 7th, 2009

Today’s success tip comes from Andrew May.

After he founded Good Health Solutions, which is now Australia’s largest corporate health and wellbeing consultancy, Andrew continued to work with professional athletes and is now considered one of Australia’s leading experts on performance.

What are your seven steps for successful goal-setting?

1. Ask yourself the right questions - what do you want and why do you want to achieve it? How much does it really mean to you? What are the benefits of achieving the goal? Who will be affected? Are you prepared to do whatever it takes to achieve the goal?

2. Involve significant others - don’t keep your goals to yourself. Enlist the support of your partner, family, friends and colleagues. This keeps you accountable, while at the same time forming a support group to keep you on track.

3. Get anchored - write your goals down on a sheet of paper, simplify them into point form and then display them somewhere you can view them regularly - your diary, office, car, even on the back of the toilet door.

4. Small bites - George Miller, a 1950s psychologist, believed that we can only deal with seven bits of information at any one time. Any more than this and we need to group things into more memorable, manageable chunks. So when you create your master plan for the New Year, keep goals to a manageable number and group similar areas.

5. Set a plan - after you have written down your specific goals, the next step is to work out a specific plan. Identify the key steps you need to take toward accomplishing your goals and assign specific dates for their achievement.

6. Project the future - review your goals at least every seven days (every day is ideal) - and don’t leave it for another year. This helps activate the Reticular Activating System (RAS). The RAS is an inbuilt goal-setting device that tracks us toward our target and filters the type of information we let into our internal system. Spend time thinking about what it will be like once you have successfully achieved your goals. How are you going to feel? We really do become what we think!

7. Be realistic and reward yourself along the way - it is important to reward yourself along the way as you tick off your achievements. Give yourself a pat on the back for sticking to the process.

And remember, humans make mistakes, so don’t beat yourself up if you lose focus. If you find yourself breaking resolutions or experiencing distractions, sit down and go through the goal-setting process again, starting from step one.

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Filed under: Tips for Success — Katie Bedding @ 8:41 am